Monday, January 31, 2011

Muffin Tin Monday and Recipe

Today's theme for Muffin Tin Monday is FAVORITES!  My boys have favorites, but they are not what I am wanting to feed them these days......poptarts, Fruit Loops, Apple Jacks, etc.  Basically store bought JUNK!  Another favorite is granola bars. They love those Quaker Oats chewy granola bars!! We have gone two weeks without them, but they have been begging for granola bars.

I got out an old recipe, made some adjustments and just went ahead and made up a batch. Super easy recipe!! All the guys loved them!   

So for breakfast this is what the boys had.  And I am throwing in the recipe for the granola bars if you are interested.  Happy Monday!


Granola bars, vanilla yogurt w/mini chocolate chips and sprinkles, apples, pineapples, water and strawberry milk!

Easy Granola Bars 

Ingredients:
3 cups quick-cooking oats                          1 cup sliced almonds
1 (14 oz) can sweetened                            1 cup miniature semisweet chocolate chips
condensed milk                                          1/2 cup dried cranberries
2 tablespoons butter, melted
1 cup flaked coconut

Preheat oven to 300.  Grease 9x13 pan.
In a large bowl, mix all ingredients with hands or rubber spatula until well blended.  Press flat into the prepared pan.  Bake for 25 minutes, depending on how crunchy you want them.  Lightly brown just around the edges will you give moist chewy bars.  Let cool 15 minutes and cut into desired size of bar.
Told you they were easy!

Muffin Tin Monday at Her Cup Overfloweth

Friday, January 28, 2011

Infantile Scoliosis-Makenna's story

This is week three of sharing stories about other precious children that share the same condition as Ryan......Infantile Scoliosis.  Today I am happy to share a story about Makenna.  
Makenna is another little one I learned about on my support group through
ISOP (Infantile Scoliosis Outreach Program).  Here is her story written by her mother, Amy.

Makenna's Story


Makenna was born on March 27th, 2007 weighing 5 lbs, 3 oz. Although this perfect, beautiful, baby girl was born four weeks early, she passed the newborn tests with flying colors.


At about three months, I noticed that her eyes were not tracking from right to left. We were referred to a pediatric ophthalmologist who ordered an MRI of her brain.

The MRI results indicated a diagnosis of a cranial sixth nerve palsy and strabismus (a condition commonly known as crossed eyes where eyes do not line up in same direction when focusing.) The eye doctor explained that Makenna was only using one eye at a time, but that each eye was actually quite strong by itself.

The eye that she wasn't using would drift to a crossed position. The strabismus condition was affecting Makenna's development, and as a result, delayed her ability to walk.

Makenna went in for eye surgery at 19 months. They realigned her eyes by tightening (shortening) the muscles on the inside of her eyes. A few days after the surgery not only did her eyes align nearly perfectly, but she got up and started walking. It was like night and day. It still gets me every time I think about it. It was like a second `birth day'. She came alive after that surgery. Before, she had to spend so much energy just trying to focus and make sense of the double vision that she just couldn't engage in eye contact. Although the strabismus condition was successfully mended, the nerve palsy affecting Makenna's ability to move her eyes outward, cannot be repaired.

After the eye surgery, we felt like they were in the clear and could breathe a sigh of relief. But in the summer of 2009, I noticed that Makenna was walking peculiar. Her right foot never quite got in front of the left. The neurologist ordered a second MRI to rule out any neurological causes of the discrepancy. But before we could get the results, I noticed during a bath that Makenna's right rib cage was sticking out to the side. I ran my finger along her spine and felt a curve.

X-Rays confirmed that Makenna had a curve in her spine measuring 20 degrees. Technically, she would be in the "watch and wait" category of scoliosis to determine whether or not it was self-resolving or progressive. However, in Makenna's case, there is a rare connection between the sixth nerve palsy and the scoliosis called Horizontal Gaze Palsy with Progressive Scoliosis (HGPPS.) Basically, she has brain stem hypoplasia (underdevelopement), creating a cleft or ridge in her brain stem right at the nucleus of the sixth nerve. There are very few cases (about 80) reported in the world. All research indicates that the most troublesome aspect of the condition is the scoliosis. So this is where we turned our attention.



By chance, I met a mom with a 2 ½ year old daughter who had just gone through EDF treatment. This treatment option was never mentioned by Makenna's doctors. I was directed to the website for Infantile Scoliosis Outreach Program (ISOP). After much internet research and phone calls, it became increasingly apparent that the best method for treating progressive scoliosis in someone as young as Makenna was Early Treatment with EDF (elongation, derotation, and flexion) using the Mehta Method.



After some paperwork and red tape…we got Makenna into the program at Shriner's Hospital in Chicago. She received her first cast in November of 2009. Makenna's curve measured 25° prior to casting. In each cast they were able to cast her at 0°! Makenna was treated with a series of 4 EDF casts and is currently in a brace holding somewhere between 0 and 10 degrees. Every child with Progressive Infantile Scoliosis should be given the chance that ISOP and Shriner's has given Makenna! We are eternally grateful.



I want to share Makenna's story with everyone--not to dwell on all the challenges and frustrations we have encountered, but rather, to reach out to others who may be experiencing similar hurdles with their child. Searching for the best doctors, and the latest research or treatment options is the very best we can offer our children. As parents, we are their best advocates. We should always have faith and keep searching for answers.

To read Makenna's full story go to  http://strengthofspirit.weebly.com/

If you wish to contact Amy Replogle (Makenna's Mom) her email is sos_2010@comcast.net.

living the Dream!

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Happy Birthday Brant!

January 27th.....what a wonderful day!!!! 
Today is Brant's birthday and his twin brother's birthday too!  Happy birthday Brent! 
I am so happy to be giving this man a day that he so deserves.  The love of my life.  The man who makes my heart go pitter patter.  I fell in love with him the first time I met him and still feel the same butterflies today every time he looks at me.  It's true!
Happy Birthday Honey! 

Me and the boys have all kinds of FUN stuff planned to celebrate Daddy's bday. He does not like us making a big deal out of his day, but that is exactly what we will! The boys went to bed talking about it.  Matthew mentioned us getting up early just to go shopping and Ryan thinks we need a school holiday.  Now that is love for Daddy.
I can't give too much away right now because Brant does read my blog.  So check back later for birthday updates.

Until then know this day is a true blessing to me and the boys!

Update-Birthday Breakfast!

First time in almost 12 years of marriage I have made him breakfast before he left for work.  Don't judge.....I was training the whole time.


French toast!

Well of course he added syrup!  Me and the boys sang him "Happy Birthday" and then he and the boys enjoyed their sugar breakfast.

Update-Waiting on Daddy

The cake is made, presents are wrapped and now we wait. Wait for Daddy to get home from work to take him out for supper.  And then on to dessert!
Brant requested Chocolate Sheet Cake for his birthday.  This is an old family favorite in his family as well as mine.  So I granted his wish!  I hurried him out the door after breakfast so me and the boys could get to work with the party stuff.  And I could slave away in the kitchen again to bake a cake. 
I'll post the recipe next week for the big sheet of chocolate just in case you have never had.  If you have not had it I insist you try it.  To die for!!!!!  Really!

So right now we just wait.  Every 10-15 minutes the boys ask, "When is Dad home?"  Which means, when is Daddy coming home.  When he opens the front door his surprise waits for him.   The boys mostly want him to get home so they can get into his new stash of candy.  We bought him this jar a year or so ago for his birthday......for his office  Every birthday or special occasion we refill it with his favorite candy. 
Root beer barrels, Starbursts and Tootsie Roll suckers.  And Daddy is good about sharing.  So now you see why they are so anxious for him to come home.  Candy and cake!


The boys' favorite part of Daddy's bday!

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Some things never change

What a difference a day makes!  Monday was a day I do not want to revisit any time soon, but it sures makes me think about how I need to change things. 

Yesterday was a breath of fresh air compared to Monday.  We all seemed to work through things and have better attitudes about our day.  It's funny when you set your mind to having a better attitude it really can help.  And it did yesterday.  You can change if you want to.

Don't get me wrong it was not all roses and cupcakes.  I had a few moments where I almost lost it, but managed to save myself from blowing my top.  It was like I needed Monday-a hard, dysfunctional day to realize how messed up the day can be if I am not fully relying on God to help me through.  I'll admit it.  I can not do this alone.  I need my Heavenly Father to walk beside me every minute of the day.  And I rejoice that at any second of the day I can call on him to help me. 

"Oh dear God help me!" 

And when I do for that split second I take a deep breath, let it out and calm myself down.  At that point I can refocus and see the blessings I have before me.  The two special blessings from God. The blessings he has entrusted to me.  I know God will accomplish His purposes in the boys, but it is my job to nurture them in the ways of the Lord.

And those two blessings take my breath away time and time again.
Every night when we put the boys to bed it all goes like clockwork. Some things never change.
Daddy kisses them goodnight and then it's my turn.  Their rooms are right across from one another so they can hear each other. And that is probably why I get this from both boys.
Every night now for over a year after I kiss them goodnight and try to leave their rooms they BOTH ask me five questions.  Every once in a while they will throw in a new one, but these are the ones I get every night.

1. Are there going to be any storms or fireworks?
2. What if there is?
3. How many hours till morning?
4. Can you sleep with me?
5. Can I sleep with you?

And every night I give them the same exact answers.

1. No
2. I'll come get you
3. 12 hours
4. No
5. No

Some nights it almost kills me that I have to once again answer these same questions again!  But it would not be a good night if they did not ask them.  They need to hear those answers from their momma.  What I mean is, they still depend on me.  And hearing the answer to those questions makes them feel secure and able to sleep better. Even if it is the same exact answer they hear every single night!  Some things never change.
Just like I need my Heavenly Father to walk beside me all day long they need me to walk beside them with a loving, positive attitude all day long.  And at bedtime!!

So last night as I heard the same questions ask again it occurred to me that some things never change.  And I feel good about that.  And knew they were sleeping well.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

One of those days!

First off I must say thanks for the love and concern for my absence yesterday on my blog!!!

It was just one of those days.  The toilet got stopped up, the dishes in the dishwasher were NOT clean, although it had run through a CLEAN cycle, the ice was frozen almost solid in the freezer, the boys were silly beyond silly during school, grocery shopping was a nightmare, my nose would not stop running, loads and loads of laundry to fold, we had to eat(and I missed Muffin Tin Monday!!!)breakfast(french toast!)and lunch(what did they eat for lunch?!?!)and I could go on and on.  It was just one of those days.  I joked that God and the devil were fighting over who would test me. 

But today will be different!  This morning I got up early, had my much needed time with God, did my computer stuff, prepared lessons for today and then Matthew woke up.  By 8am Ryan was still sleeping so he had the pleasure of his brother waking him up.  
They are on a kick this week for a "cooked" breakfast.  Must be nice!  And their breakfast of choice is french toast.  Can you imagine eating french toast with syrup and drinking chocolate milk for breakfast two days in a row?! Now that must be nice!

I am lucky if I get to eat a banana, a slice of flourless, sprouted grain toast with a schmear of peanut butter! 
Oh well I'll wait for that bowl of old fashion oatmeal with blueberries and never even crave for that french toast!

My prayers for today are to make it through the day without anyone crying, screaming or getting in a fight.  We did a lot of that yesterday.  Many times yesterday I just threw in the towel and sat in disbelief that two little boys can not get along for longer than 15....maybe 20 minutes.  And at times I totally ignored them and let them hash it out. 
"It's not fair!" I heard this all day yesterday.  Playing outside in the dirt, fighting over a tiny dump truck.  Matthew would scream at his brother begging for him to let him play with the ONLY tiny dump truck they have.  It doesn't matter that they have TWO monster dump trucks they could play with.  And the whole time our mean spirited Ryan(I do not mean that to sound ugly.....he just is)just sat with a grin on his face as his brother stomped and growled for the truck.

That is the truck that caused WAR!

Face of the growler
  So now you see why I had no energy to blog about our usual Muffin Tin Monday.  It was just one of those days.  Just another day in the life of being a stay at home momma with twin boys, homeschooling, cleaning, running errands and trying my hardest to be a direct example of Godliness for my boys.  Oh and have supper ready for the love of my life :)
My prayer is today will not be one of those days...............

Friday, January 21, 2011

Infantile Scoliosis-Grace's story

Today I am happy to share a story about a sweet little girl named Grace.  I learned about Grace through a support group for Infantile Scoliosis. I have been following Grace's story for a couple of years.
 I joined the group through ISOP (Infantile Scoliosis Outreach Program). 
These ladies and their children are like family to me. 
I have been following Grace's story for a couple of years.
Jane, Grace's mom, tells about her story. 



On April 19, 2006 my husband and I went in for our routine 20 week ultrasound. Long story short and many tears later, we were told our daughter would be born with an Omphalocele, basically a hernia at the umbilical cord. A few days later we had an amniocentesis performed. Ten days later, I received the call that Grace had no detectable genetic abnormalities.
Fast-forward to September 6, 2006. The day our precious daughter was to be delivered via scheduled c-section due to the predicted size of the Omphalocele. They assumed it would be large to giant in size, so at least the size of a large grapefruit. Grace was born at around 10:40 a.m. with no visible complications other than the Omphalocele. She was rushed to the NICU where they placed a tube down her throat to suction out anything she had in her stomach. She weighed in at 8 lbs 4 oz and was 20 1/8” long. She was a BIG baby for the NICU.

Her surgeon came to visit that evening and take a look at her abdomen. Upon examination, he realized she had a considerable amount of excess skin surrounding the Omphalocele. He came and discussed with us the awesome news that he would be able to close her abdomen the following day. It appeared to him that the Omphalocele only contained part of her liver and maybe her gal bladder or appendix and with the addition of some Alloderm to allow him to close her muscles, he believed he would be able to fit everything back inside.

The next day, prior to her surgery she was x-rayed from head to toe, as well as numerous other tests, so that the surgical team could know as much about Grace’s anatomy as they could before going in.

Following the surgery, her surgeon returned to my room to let us know that the surgery was a success. While there, he asked if anyone had told us that Grace had an extra vertebra and a few extra ribs. We were very surprised as no one had told us that. He said it was probably nothing, that a lot of adults walking around have extra of both and never even know it. However, once we were released from the hospital, we would have a referral to the pediatric orthopedic clinic for follow-up.

Grace made an awesome recovery and surprised everyone when she was discharged at only 9 days old. It was estimated that she’d be in the hospital for 3-4 months.

At 6 weeks old, we went to our first orthopedic appointment. Grace’s spine was fully x-rayed. When the orthopedist came in, he showed us the x-ray. It was pretty obvious that Grace had something wrong with her back. He pointed out the very small partial vertebra in the thoracic area of her spine as well as an extra full vertebra in her lumbar region. He could find no evidence of extra ribs. The curve in Grace’s spine at the point of the hemi-vertebra was measured at approximately 23 degrees. He explained that worse case scenario the hemi would grow and Grace would have to have a fusion surgery at around 5 years of age. Best case scenario, the hemi wouldn’t grow. We were officially in the “wait and see” phase. He sent us on our way with an order to return for a new set of x-rays in 3-4 months.

This went on for about the next 18 months. We noticed Grace was having a bit of an issue climbing up on chairs. She would mainly pull herself up using her arms and once she was mostly up, she would then pull her legs up behind her. She didn’t really use her legs in climbing. Her doctor was under the impression that it may just be “her” way of doing things, but decided to have her get an MRI to rule-out any other spine/spinal cord problems. At this point, Grace’s curve measured just above 40 degrees and no other abnormalities were noted about her spine.

Over the course of 18 months, every time we were seen by the orthopedist, he would tell us that her curve hadn’t grown. His rule of thumb was that if a number measured within 5 degrees (give or take) of the last number, there was no change. So every time he measured, it was always within 5 of the previous visit, therefore, by his rules, the curve was the “same” when in actuality, her curve had almost doubled in size.

At this point I also began to notice that her lower spine was “sticking out”. When I pointed it out to her orthopedist, he said it was just muscle building up. He also continued with his stand that he would do nothing but fuse her where she was at, when the time was right.

I didn’t like that answer. I didn’t like that my daughter would have to live her entire life with a crooked spine, pain, potential respiratory issues, repeated surgeries and a deformity. At the last view of her x-rays, I could now see her spine was becoming a backwards “S”. Before the area of her spine above the hemivertebrae was straight and the lower angled out from hemi and was also straight. I searched many days on-line to find answers and came across a few scoliosis boards. It was on one of these boards that another mom recommended I get a second opinion.

A few weeks later I was discouraged when all I could find through my insurance was another doctor, who happened to be in the same clinic as our original doctor. I didn’t like the idea of basically going to the same place for another opinion and I felt they would be very biased towards the plan the other doctor had laid out.

I went back to the support board, I was beyond upset. We didn’t have the money to go outside of our insurance provider to be seen for another opinion. Again, another mom suggested that I apply to the Shriner’s Hospital Network for a second opinion. I had a Shriner’s right in my own city! This I could do! I applied. It took 3 weeks to get the approval that they would see Grace and another 4 months to get in the door for our initial visit.

On July 31, 2008, we were seen for the first time at Shriner’s. It had only been about 6 weeks since she had been seen by her previous doctor and her curves were now above 50 degrees. They had grown almost 10 degrees. I nearly jumped for joy when our new doctor said he could “fix” her spine. However, Grace was still too small. So, to buy time she was fitted for a Providence Night-time Brace. She wore this brace from August 2008 until around January 2009 when she grew out of it. At this initial appointment, we were put on the surgical docket for approximately one year out (this was the typical waitlist time for her doctor).

The orthotics department measured Grace for a new night-time brace. She wore it off and on for about 2 months. She had never complained about the first brace until it was too small. However, from the first night, she complained and cried and fought us about wearing this one. I knew something wasn’t right. We went back in and saw the doctor. They did many tests with Grace in the brace and finally realized that after about 15 minutes her lower spine would rotate so much that she wasn’t aligned correctly in the brace and therefore was making her rotation worse. The braces had help hold the curves from progressing, but were basically encouraging her lower spine to twist outwards. It was so far twisted that in some positions, I could almost grab hold of her spine.

Grace was then fitted for a regular TLSO brace and was required to wear it 20 hours a day. In July 2009, our doctor said we couldn’t wait any longer, we had to schedule surgery.

On September 2, 2009, Grace was admitted to Shriner’s Hospital for her hemi-vertebra to be removed and vertebra’s T8 and T9 were fused together using hardware. She was in surgery for 8 long hours. She endured a collapsed lung, requiring a chest tube, she was placed on a ventilator, a foley catheter and had a blood transfusion as she lost a tremendous amount of blood. They transferred her to the adjacent children’s hospital’s pediatric intensive care unit. It was very hard to see her at first. She was swollen beyond recognition. She didn’t look like my sweet little girl in any way. On top of it, she couldn’t talk or move without silently crying. I would never wish anyone to have to see their baby in that condition.

The PICU nurses administered a medication to help the swelling go down. By the next morning, she was able to have the ventilator removed and at 24 hours post-op, she was returned to Shriner’s for the remainder of her hospital recovery.

The first two days of her recovery she had a plaster splint we referred to as her tortoise shell, attached to her with a very wide ace-like bandage. On the second day, she received her brace. The fourth day was her 3rd birthday and was spoiled by family, friends and of course every shift of staff at the hospital. This was the first day we finally moved her out of bed. First on pillows in a wagon, we pulled her to the playroom. Once she saw all the toys, she was much more willing to consider moving around. On day five, late in the afternoon, she finally urinated on her own and we were allowed to take her home.

One week post-op, we returned to the clinic. Grace’s curves were down to around 40 degrees. Best case scenario had always been that the curves would just go away with surgery. We discussed the options and the only one that made sense was to begin serial EDF (elongation, derotation, flexion) casting to reduce her curves.

April 2010, she received cast number 4. Her curves are down below 10 degrees in cast and with T8 and T9 fused at 5 degrees (they were unable to make it zero because it caused mobility problems), this is Grace’s “best case scenario”.

May 25, 2010, Grace moved back to a TLSO brace for the summer. This was our first opportunity to know her numbers out of cast. She is still in the mid-20’s, but that is still an improvement from the mid-40’s she was 7 months prior.

We decided to give serial EDF casting a break because Grace is also experiencing some bladder issues. In August 2010, Grace had a urodynamic test that showed her bladder isn’t emptying completely, is large in size for her age, and it doesn’t contract. I believe they are referring to it as a “Neurogenic Bladder of Unknown Cause”. We thought it was possibly due to an undiagnosed tethered cord, but a repeat MRI in September 2010 showed no anomalies other than her scoliosis that would cause her bladder to not work properly.

At this time, Grace is 4 years old. She has never been able to void on the toilet, nor have a bowel movement on the toilet. We are awaiting appointments for other opinions of her bladder problem, but as it stands, we will begin catheterizing her in the near future. This isn’t something we want to do, but in the long-term, hopefully it will avoid other bladder issues.

Update 1/7/2011:


Grace went back into a cast on 12/20/2010. Unfortunately, over the 7 months she was out of cast in a brace, her curves progressed back to almost where we started over a year ago. She was back at about 35 degrees. Our doctor is also noting that some of her other vertebrae’s are started to look wedged, meaning they aren’t growing as they should. Ultimately, the doctor is willing to cast Grace as long as she tolerates it to hold off the need for growing rods, but he also indicated that she would need a complete fusion some day.

As an update to her bladder issues, we have begun to use a TENS Unit to try and stimulate the nerves. Neither her orthopedist nor her urologist are willing to rule-out that this isn’t related somehow to her spine, but the neuro-surgeon is at a loss since her MRI shows no signs of a tethered cord or other anomaly that would have a bladder complication. They may consider exploratory surgery to fully rule-out a tethered cord of some sort, but there needs to be additional conversations between all the doctors before they will proceed. Really, they don’t know why her bladder isn’t working. So far her tests have shown no kidney or bladder damage to this point, so we haven’t had to begin catheterization yet, but it is probable that we will have to in another year or so.

Submitted by:
Jane Bigler, Grace’s mom

If you should have any questions about Grace's story you can contact Jane at
janemhar@yahoo.com


Thursday, January 20, 2011

Thinking ahead to ♥day.

                ♥ That's right I am thinking ahead to Valentine's Day ♥
It is all about showing my sweet boys some LOVE.  I like to make a big deal out of it just for them!
My parents always did for us and I must follow suit.  Right?   No, I don't need a special day to show them how much I love them, but since someone came up with this silly day for florist and card makers to make mega money, I'll use it!!!!!  Plus I LOVE to spread the LOVE!

This morning when I found all our Valentine stuff Matthew was awake and right beside me.  He immediately started making plans for our Valentine's Day Party.  The decorations, the crafts and of course all the homemade valentines we will send to family and friends.  I am sure soon we will talk about the food.  If this child comes up with sweets and the typical "Valentine's Day" treats for this party I am certain he is mine!

Planning ahead is key for me.  And to be honest I live to have something to plan for!!!  A special day takes thoughts and lots of planning.  But it does not have to blow the budget. 
I had found these coupon book print outs  last year, but thought the boys were still a little young so I just held on to them. Well not this year!!!  They are the perfect age for these and I think they will love them! 



There are coupons for:
-A good story read
-Cereal, Cookies or Snacks(they get to pick)
-a video or TV show they want to watch(this one will be great in our house since the TV is rarely on)
-make your own ice cream sundae
-favorite game to play
-menu of your choice(breakfast, lunch or dinner)
-A Big Hug
-a batch of cookies

I plan to attach them to card stock and then hole punch the ends and add them to a ring.  It will be fun for them to "cash" the coupon in for whatever they like.  I will have to limit it to one coupon a week though.

So this morning me and Matthew are planning our Valentine's Day party and getting excited about it!  I'll now be hearing about his plans for the next three weeks. 

Check back and see what I plan to do with the heart trees in the picture above.  What kinda of "love" do you have brewing for Valentine's Day?

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Cherish the moments

As a wife, momma, housekeeper(not a very good one), teacher, friend, etc. I am constantly on the go.  In our home and sometimes outside our home.  Life is just busy.  So often I am missing those sweet moments and ignoring some of God's greatest gifts.

If you have a few minutes watch this video. In the past few days I have seen this all over the internet.  And each time I do it hits me.......what a great reminder to cherish the moments!!


Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Sick school day

Sickness is slowly bringing us all down.  As of right now Brant is the only man standing.  Thank God! 
Meanwhile life goes on and because we are not puking our guts up school must go on.  Awww the beauty of homeschooling.  So when the teacher and the students are sick we take our lemons and make lemonade.
We cuddle, we read, we sniff and blow, we rest and takes naps, we drink plenty of fluids and eat lots of loaded oatmeal cookies and we COLOR!

Monday, January 17, 2011

Muffin Tin Monday-Breakfast

Well I managed to follow the theme this week for Muffin Tin Monday.  It was easy this time because there was no theme!  HA!  This muffin tin breakfast thing is really a hit with the boys.  They know there days very well now and ask me yesterday if they could have it for breakfast again today.  It makes it easy for me so I am more than willing to give them breakfast in a muffin tin.  Here is what they had this morning.

Chocolate milk, Frosted Mini Wheats, bagel with strawberry cream cheese, cheese peanut butter crackers, banana-nut bread, vanilla yogurt with sprinkles, oranges and apples.
**BTW-this looks like a lot of food to me.  And some times it is.  I usually leave this out the whole time we do school.  They will go back and forth until it is all gone.  It works for us.**

Head on over to Muffin Tin Mom to check out all the other muffin tin ideas.

                                                  Muffin Tin Monday at Her Cup Overfloweth

Winter Hike

Friday we took the day off from school since we were four days ahead.  We were all sick of being indoors due to the weather so we decided to take a hike.  It was in the forties but we bundled up and made our way to a hiking spot by a lake.  I was freezing when we first started, but very quickly warmed up, unzipped the jacket and the gloves came off.  It was perfect! 

It was such a different look from the last time we went on a hike.  Our last hike was in the fall and this hike was the dead of winter.  There was not much color, but I found beauty in what we saw.  And I did see a little bit of color here and there.




There were birds everywhere! Of course what caught my eye were the cardinals and the red-headed woodpecker.  The cardinals teased me all along our hike because I never could get close enough to get a good shot.  Both the cardinal and woodpecker are native to this lake area.
As we got deeper into the woods we started seeing tracks.  We assumed they were deer tracks, raccoon tracks and coyote tracks.  Later we did found out these are all listed as wildlife in this park.


It was after we started seeing all the tracks that the hike became very quiet and slow.  We walked without talking hoping to run into wildlife.  We all walked in a single file line trying to avoid the leaves on the sides.
I had just whispered, "I can't believe we have not run across any wildlife", when two deer ran in front of us about forty yards away.  Brant saw them and whispered loudly, but I only saw their tails.  The boys were too short to see anything.  BUT we were all on alert now.  The walk remained very quiet and we all walked as if we were hunting to kill.
Killing was not really on our minds(OK maybe Brant's), we just wanted to see some deer.  Some wildlife!!  It was the quietest I have ever seen the boys.   We never saw anymore deer or any other type of wildlife for that matter, but they were out there.  We came across track after track.  Fresh tracks too!  And even this nice little spot to potty.  No we did not use it, but I am sure that is what it is for.  Besides that I just thought it would make a nice picture.


I continued to find beauty in the woods on this cold, dreary winter day.  Beauty all created by God.





Although we were not indoors having school we were outdoors learning all about nature.  Seeing it first hand, touching it, smelling it and walking all through it.  It was an almost 3 mile hike going up and down so needless to say the boys were tired.  But we all enjoyed our time being outdoors.  I was not keen from the beginning on taking a hike, but am so happy I went.  We hope to make it to the other side for a longer hike soon. 

Friday, January 14, 2011

Infantile Scoliosis-Bexon's Update

Over the next few weeks(and hopeful many more)I plan to share stories written by moms of children with Infantile Scoliosis.  Like I said last Friday all I have ever wanted to do since Ryan's treatment is spread AWARENESS to parents, family, friends, doctors, ANYONE who will listen. My format for Fridays will be Infantile Scoliosis.  I hope you will continue to come and read my blog on Fridays. Share these stories if you  wish and please let me know if you should have any questions.

So just as I promised last Friday I have Bexon's update from his recent trip to SLC where his 9th cast was applied for Infantile Scoliosis.  His update is written by his sweet mommy Heidi.  Heidi is a screen and TV writer along with being a new Blogger/Vlogger at Girl to Mom.
Her blog follows their journey.  Read Bexon's updated story written by Heidi.


But first check out the amazing photos of before treatment and just recently.






Crooked Love by Heidi Ferrer

My baby didn’t know it but his spine was trying to kill him. This is the story of how the Internet saved my baby’s life.
Google. His life and spine was saved by Googling.

I know.

My child has, to be clear, the most difficult orthopedic condition to treat in children and one of the only potentially fatal conditions in babies other than cancer.

Their spine is like a train out of control, dangerously curving to crush their heart and lungs.

Look, I have to tell you this fast because it may help another baby. It may help your baby. This is important work and kids are falling through the cracks every day. We are going to change that forever. Period.

We didn’t notice a curve in Bex’s spine until he was almost a year old. It looked like basically nothing. We thought we should ask his doctor. She was out on maternity leave. On the “well baby” check-up at just over a year, Bex was sick and the doctor did not remove his t-shirt in the room.

This was Jenny McCarthy’s pediatrician, at least at one point, and also Gabrielle Reece’s. He’s been on Larry King Live. We felt like we were with the best. The Best of the Best, The Best in the West…

The curve looked so slight at this point that we forgot to ask about it, we were much more worried about his high fever. We didn’t know what a monster this condition is.

It’s a monster.

But something happened earlier. Bex has a sacral dimple above his butt. It’s tiny, but it can be an indicator in some, but not all cases of a need to check out the spine, etc. To look for tethered cord, Chiari malformation, etc.

What you also want to look for is a rib humb, or uneven ribs, but I’m getting ahead of myself. (It’s not a muscle build-up on one side.)

Look: We showed his pediatrician his spine a few weeks later and were sent to a celebrity friendly orthopedic surgeon in Santa Monica, CA.

This is where we began to get the dreaded Watch and Wait, the kiss of death with Progressive Infantile Scoliosis.

This guy acted like it was no big deal. Bex was about 13 months old, 25 degrees COBB angle in a lying down X-ray. Sitting or standing is more accurate, that number is usually higher.

Doc moron number one said come back in a month. Bex went from 25 to 28 degrees in that month. At this point he should have suggested casting, but no. Doc moron said come back in 3 months.

Bex was then 34 degrees in a lying down X-ray and only NOW he “kicked us up” to the scoliosis specialist.

Really? Yes. I know. I am angry.

This doc moron number 2 who I like to call Doctor My Tummy Tells Me in Beverly Hills who also practices at Children’s Hospital LA.

DEAR DOC MTTM: It is criminal to make children suffer for a lifetime for YOUR profit. The information was out there and you knew about it. You disgust me.

Dr. My Tummy Tells Me (he said his tummy tells him when to do surgery on a child! I know!) – he ordered an MRI but did not mention or encourage a non-surgical alternative for our innocent, precious baby. When my husband asked about it, he was dismissive. Casts were not done in the state of California, he said. He didn’t do them. You’d have to go out of state.

To Utah! Gasp!

This guy is a creep. A frickin’ CREEP. Now he’s sending people to casting, but not before us. And he knew about it. He knew.

If we had followed his advice, bracing which does not usually hold progressive cases followed by years of invasive, painful surgeries with multiple complications and deformity and a totally different childhood and future for my precious innocent boy—

If we had followed his advice…

SO! We didn’t follow his advice, even though we had excellent health insurance and the Best in the West doctors and instead we GOOGLED and found ISOP, a non-profit charity begun by Heather Hyatt Montoya, a Mama Tiger who was looking for a cure to save her own precious baby, beautiful Olivia…

Bex has had 9 body/torso casts so far in the Mehta Method of EDF (Elongation, Derotation, Flexion) casting, which is done on a special three dimensional table that was invented by doctors Cotrel and Morel in France in the 1940s. India born Doctor Min Mehta came up with the pioneering idea of casting babies and young children while they are in the rapid growth phase, as the human spine grows 50 percent before the age of 2.

The rule of thumb for this treatment is to start early, preferably under age 2, (but I can tell you we’ve already gotten great correction over age 3), and it’s best to begin under 50-60 degrees for a complete “cure.”

That said, I know children who started at 80 degrees and are doing amazingly. It is the only cure for this condition, and while the casts seem daunting at first, they are temporary and removable. Once invasive surgeries are begun and hardware is implanted in your child’s body, there is no going back.

We are not anti surgery and would do it if it’s the best possible option at any point. But it should not be the first line of defense with this condition, if caught in time. And over a million dollars per child is the cost of that route, which we all pay for in insurance. Hel-lo, economy!

If your baby or young child has scoliosis, ACT FAST. Time is vital. MRIS have to be done before casting, and in some cities and countries it can take 2 months or longer to get in for those appointments. Get in the system, be politely pushy, get your ducks in a row.

You can always cancel medical appointments, just get them on the books. 80-90 percent of cases of IS self-resolve, but if you are in the progressive group you will want to act fast and you may have a complete cure.

A CURE!

A very beyond special mention for the brilliant Doctor Jacques D’ Astous and Shriners Hospitals for Children, who along with ISOP have absolutely changed and saved our boy’s life and spine. Jacques is the guru and he works very, very hard to train other docs worldwide in this treatment.

Shriners Hospitals- why don’t more people know about them? The work they do to save children and transform their lives is simply stunning, it takes your breath away.

So here’s the great news! As I write this, Bex is down from 63 degrees COBB angle (zero being straight)—

Down to 14.6 is in his current cast, number 9!!! We have one more to go, so 10 total, and then bracing to hold, but it is a miracle and we are beyond grateful that our baby was saved from the jaws of death and pain and deformity.

And we get to help others.

And life goes on.

And love wins.

Love always wins.

But you knew that, about love.

Bexon and Heidi
XOXO,
Heidi

Thursday, January 13, 2011

They are alive!!!

This is for that bettafish.com forum that was sharing my photos and judging me about the way I am taking care of OUR fish. 
Ladies and gentlemen, I am delighted to tell you the fish ARE alive!!!!!!  I read your comments on my blog and thank you for your thoughts.  I also found your forum talking all about me, my blog and taking care of the fish so I thought I would give you an update since you wondered if they were even still living.
First off haven't you ever heard of sarcasm?  It goes something like this.......we thought about having fish tacos, but I decided to serve chicken instead.  Then we talked about sushi, but realized two little fish sure would not be enough.  But we did enjoy the dove that my husband shot off the fence yesterday. YUMMO!
Thank you for the added traffic to my blog in the past week.  It has done wonders!!! 
No picture for you this time around so you will just have to believe me when I say they are ALIVE! 
I moved them into the kitchen where it is warmer. Our school room gets very cold in the winter months.  See I do care about them as much as all of God's other creatures. 
And no Pet Smart did not talk me into the fish tank.  I thought it was just so cute! 
I hope your forum does well and you save the betta fish!

You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.
                                               Matthew 7:5

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

C is for COW-Dairy party!!!!

Our party actually started at 3am when Ryan woke me(as well as Matthew)up crying.  He had gone to bed running a fever last night and the medicine had worn off by 3am.  It was time for more.  As I made my way back to my warm cozy bed both boys were sitting in their beds looking at books.  Morning came and the fever was back again.  So school was a little different of course.  But most enjoyable.  Ryan was quiet and still and Matthew knew his brother did not feel well so he was a "little" more quiet than usual.  We all gathered on the couch and finished up the letter C and cow lessons. We read The Story of Ferdinand and made our list of milk products.  The boys had no idea I was planning a dairy party and when I told them they were so excited. I had planned to have a dairy party and knew this "sick day" was the perfect time.   I mean what child turns down ICE CREAM?!?!  And strawberry milk and bagels with strawberry cream cheese.  I know...there is a strawberry thing here.  They wanted strawberry ice cream too, but I somehow talked them out of it.  This pick is SO much better!!!!


Milk it does a body good!
After school and after the meds had started working I found the boys playing Star Wars.  Here Ryan is Luke Skywalker and Matthew is Han Solo.  The trunk is Luke's space ship.

 And here is my sick one....drinking milk!!!!  This is rare for Ryan.  He must be sick or it taste good to his sore throat.  It doesn't matter as long as he is drinking it!!
  C is for Cow and also for Chocolate Chip Cookie dough ice Cream!

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

C is for Cow!

We are learning about the letter "C" this week and COWS!!!  And what do cows make?  Milk!  And what can you make from milk?  BUTTER!  Well actually heavy whipping cream is what we used.
And a jar!
We were to take turns shaking the jar for 20 minutes.  And shake and shake and shake.  Matthew did some shaking.  Ryan did some shaking.  Even mommy and daddy got in on the shaking.

And still no butter.  The boys were getting really bored with all the shaking, but we did make them stay with it for the 20 minutes.  After that me and Brant took over.  After shaking for about 25 minutes we still had no butter.  So we cheated and I poured it in the mixer.

Not even five  minutes later we had BUTTER!!!!!  Nothing like homeschooling and breaking the rules!!!
Homemade butter with toast is delightful!  And "C" is for COW!

Looks like cottage cheese, but it is the real deal.....BUTTER!

Monday, January 10, 2011

Muffin Tin Monday-Breakfast

Check out our Muffin Tin for today.  We did breakfast again per the boys request.  I didn't follow the theme this week over at Muffin Tin Monday because I didn't have liners and the boys love the muffin tin.  Oh well I'll try to keep up with the theme for next week!
Here is breakfast!


Life cereal, Frosted Mini Wheats, vanilla yogurt with sprinkles, toast, apples and oranges.
I read George Washington for our history lesson today as the boys enjoyed their Muffin Tin Monday breakfast.

Sunday, January 9, 2011

What about Socialization?

One of my favorite questions people will ask me when they learn we homeschool is,
"What about Socialization?"
This video is too funny!  Enjoy!

Friday, January 7, 2011

Infantile Scoliosis

Five years ago this month Ryan had his first appointment for Progressive Infantile Scoliosis at Texas Scottish Rite Hospital.  I think back to those days and the unknown we were facing.  I stop myself and realize how blessed we are. I am thankful to God and his doctor that we are where we are today.  Not exactly where I wish we were, but in a good place none the less.  He will go back for a check-up in late February early March.  Oh dear God my prayer is we he can take a break from this darn brace!  Three years, three months and seven days of bracing is getting really old.  But we are blessed!
When I do stop to think back to those days I then think of all the precious babies/children whose curves progress due to the lack of knowledge doctors have on this condition.  Just like Ryan's did.  We know he had it at birth, but it was not caught.  But why?  He was seen by several doctors at birth, but obviously they do not know to look for scoliosis in babies.  I could be angry and stay angry, but I choose to make as many parents, doctors, families and friends AWARE that there is such a thing as Progressive Infantile Scoliosis. 
It is not just something a teenage girl can get.
So this morning as I started thinking back to five years ago and walking in that hospital I got a knot in my stomach.  I remember not knowing what we would find out.  It was a sick feeling!  A feeling I hear about often from parents who also find out their precious baby has Progressive Infantile Scoliosis. I am part of a support group through ISOP .
The Infantile Scoliosis Outreach Program (ISOP) was established in 2003 in Denver, Colorado. It was created by a mother who was searching for a more gentle, non surgical alternative method of care(casting)to treat her young daughter with progressive infantile scoliosis. 
I joined the group just days before Ryan's first cast was applied.  Since then I have learned more than any doctor could have ever taught me about my son's condition.
Through this group I have made friends and learn about stories similar to ours.  Some days I get so mad knowing another child has lost the chance to grow straight through Early Treatment(casting).  But that is when I try to turn that anger into spreading awareness. 
My hope is you will want to learn more about Progressive Infantile Scoliosis.  Check out my links below.  Leave me a comment if you have questions or send me a private email.  All I want is to make people AWARE there is treatment out there for babies and young children with Progressive Infantile Scoliosis.
AWARENESS is key!!!!

Links:
Ryan's Story
PSA on Infantile Scoliosis
Bexon's Story(Bexon just had his 9th cast applied with GREAT news! Come back next Friday for his update!!!)

Thursday, January 6, 2011

"G" is for Goat!

This week we have been learning about the letter "G" and goats.  For this post I will spare you all the details of this week's lesson and get to the good stuff.
I had no crafts planned this week except for tomorrow. We'll try making a goat puppet out of a paper sack, but other than that it has been a slow week for crafts.  One thing I wanted to do with them was try goat's milk.  I didn't even look for it at a grocery store, but instead went straight to a little farm up the road that raising goats and sells the milk.  I just wasn't sure if they would have any available at this time of year.  I had heard during the Winter months they didn't have much to sell.  Regardless I knew we would head over to Homestead Farms for nothing else but to see the goats.
Homestead Farms is a little farm right in the middle of everything.  You would never know they exist down the little road.  They have a little store front that is open a few hours a day.  They sell fresh veggies, goat's milk(it goes fast!), goat cheese and other homegrown meats from other farmers around the area.  A young couple now owns the land that has been in the family since the late 1800s.
We pulled up around 2:15 and they had just opened.  The young man greeted us as we walked in the store.  I told him we were there for goat's milk.  He said they didn't have any, but to check back in a month. 
I quickly told him we homeschool and are learning about goat's this week and wanted the boys to taste it.  I was secretly hoping he would say I have a small amount you can buy, but he didn't.  I ask him where I could get some and he told me the grocery store, but it would taste awful......nothing like fresh.
I thanked him and told him we would check back in a month. 
As we were about to walk out he said, "I have an even better idea for your goat lesson this week.....what about seeing 30 minute old baby goats?"  Oh my gosh!!!  I jumped at the chance.  I think I was more excited than the boys!  So off we went following him to see these newborn baby goats.  As we got closer I could hear those sweet cries.  He invited us in the stall where there were about 20-30 goats, but right where we were standing was a big Momma goat and twin babies.  She had literally just had them.  She had two big bubbles hanging out "her area" which I am assuming was the sack, placenta or after birth.
(Mom, ask Judy for me.)
I was just waiting for the boys to start asking questions.  They did not and have not at this point. 
The twins were still a little wet from where Momma had cleaned them and there part of the umbilical cord  still hanging.  The nice young farm man now begins showing the boys the cord, but I didn't have the nerve to tell him they have no clue what you are talking about.  Again they didn't ask questions.  I think they were a little intimated by Momma goat who kept head butting the dogs when they got close to the boys.  Only because the boys were close to the baby goats.
I am SO happy we stopped by Homestead Farms today! What a great lesson on goats!
What a treat for the boys(and me)to see these precious newborn goats.  30 minutes old! 
G is for goat!


G is also for God and grateful!  I am so grateful to God for His perfect timing in our lesson today!

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

A need for change!

One of my favorite things about homeschooling the boys is I can change what we are doing at the drop of a hat.  Of course I only want to change things if what we are doing is not working. 
I am here to tell you that what we were doing was not working.  Not the curriculum, but the way I was structuring our day. 
There was an extreme need for change!!!  Why you ask? 
Four words for you.........I am teaching BOYS!!!!! Boys that feed off one another constantly.
My "classroom/sit at the table" approach is not working.  Now don't get me wrong here.....there is a time for sitting at the table to get some things done, but not for as long as I was trying to make it work.
Boys do not sit still for very long.  And they need to be doing something with their hands.  And not sitting still for very long.  And moving, talking, shouting, running, digging, chasing airplanes, running up in a fort to watch a crane garbage truck pick-up bulk trash, chasing the dog, exploring, pretending, playing baseball, riding a scooter, riding a bike, running and moving some more, etc. And not sitting still for very long. I think you get my point.
So yesterday and today I did things a little different.  No one got in trouble today.  Oh sure I had to make them settle down a few times, but for the most part it went much smoother.  And no one was sent to the principal for a paddling. 

A few things I have added to our curriculum:
-History through literature(we are reading some of these thanks to my gracious SIL who let us borrow them.  The boys LOVE these books!)
-Math puzzles-(these I learned about from a friend.  Thanks Danielle!)
-BOB readers(they both can read the first few readers.  Matthew better than Ryan(he does not want to sit still for very long.)
-Educational games
-a timer

I have added a timer to help the boys understand the importance of finishing their work on time.  This is only used for table time when they are working on workbook pages.  If they are not finished when the timer goes off 15 minutes is taken from their outside play time in the evenings. When I told them about this they FREAKED out!  These boys are always outside and especially love playing outside after dinner with their daddy.  It truly is the highlight of their day.  So to take time away from that would be awful, but a girl has to do what a girl has to do.  And this girl has to do something to see if it will work.
Everything I added is done away from the table.  On the floor, in the LR, outside, etc.  Anywhere but the table.  Breaking it up and changing the scene is helpful for them.
Restructuring our day proved to help today.  Instead of coming straight to the table to begin school we met in the LR.  While the boys ate their breakfast I started reading Pocahontas.  And actually finished it.  They love history through literature! And always want me to read to the very end!
After breakfast we moved to the DR table.  They were still hungry so I let them bring their plates with them.  As they ate together we worked on two worksheets.  Table time is our enemy, but we made it through.
I also decided it was time to double up on the lessons.  This week will be the last week to do one lesson. 
I added worksheets to a few days this week just to see if it would work. It is completely doable.  Tomorrow they will actually be doing Friday's work.  So our week will end early and make Friday a free day/auto schooling(field trip)day.

I am so anxious to see if all this works for my BOYS.  I have to keep that five and half year old mind constantly engaged.  And if that means changing things up often.....I'll do it!

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Fresh from the garden

Correction.......Fresh from our garden.  We are still enjoying fresh salads at least twice a week from our gardens.  What a healthy way to start our new year!  Matthew especially loves a salad. 

Look at that monster radish!

All from the garden!

So thankful to God for the gardens and what they have produced in our yard! 

Monday, January 3, 2011

Muffin Tin Breakfast

WOW our pantry sure was bare!  I tried really hard to make this Muffin Tin Monday work.  The theme was food picks, skewers or kabobs, but I didn't do so well with all that.  We started back to school today so I did allow the boys to have it at the table while I read to them.  Never again!!!
BTW-are there any moms of twin BOYS that homeschool out there?  Specifically moms that started this young......they are 5 1/2.  I would love to talk to YOU!
Anyway back to our Muffin Tin Breakfast.........they loved it as usual!  And it is such an easy and fun way for my boys to eat.  Here is what I came up with out of our empty pantry.

Granola bars on toothpicks, peanut butter crackers, Cheerios on toothpicks(they had fun trying to get them on the toothpick!), almonds, sunflower seeds, peaches, pears, cherries and milk.  I did not have "food picks" and to be honest I didn't know they made stuff like that for food.  Us simple folks just use a toothpick :)!

Since we will be home now on Mondays to participant I will make a point of being more prepared. Head on over to Muffin Tin Mom and check out all the other great ideas for Muffin Tin Monday.